Abusers could be sweet, generous, loving, seemingly caring, but suddenly they transform themselves.
The aggressive, offending and humiliating person in them comes out. The victims usually tend to make excuses for them. They might even believe that it is their fault!
It can happen to anyone and it may happen at any time.
I know firsthand how difficult it is to get out of that vicious cycle. It becomes a cycle to fight and make up!
The love and hate relationship could manipulate you, deceive you, and it might even kill you.
I am here to listen and offer my training and experience surviving domestic abuse.
You deserve better! Let me you.
and Dating Challenges
I know how difficult it is to find your soulmate. Before I found my husband, I dated for many years with no direction, and learned very powerful lessons and tips that I can share with you today.
You don't need to settle for anyone. Learn some of the most extreme and mind-boggling techniques being used to deceive you. I understand how awful unpredictable and toxic dating experiences can be.
I have plenty of experience dealing with manipulative people. I also understand that some relationships suffer due to commitment phobia and are filled with false expectations. I went through that as well.
It takes a while to realize that we could be starving for attention. Sometimes, we lose our identity, and our self-esteem trying to please others. We invest our time and money in dating sites, books, singles events, and at the end of the day, we are lonely, again.
Book you phone conversation, I am here to support you!
Divorce and Recovery
Just to think about how to break the news about your divorce to your kids, family, friends, co-workers, etc.… It's daunting!
I understand your fears and the uncertainty of life after a divorce. My parents divorced when I was eight. I underestand the loneliness, child separation, financial struggles and the embarrassment. I can see from every perspective, yours and your child's.
Talking to me may help you understand your emotions.
You need someone you can think out loud with, or possibly just someone who will listen to you and understand your troubles.
If you wish to end a relationship, I won't judge you, but don't go through it alone. Perhaps you are thinking about a divorce because you are in love with someone else.
Let's talk about it!
The Loss of a Loved One
Have you lost a loved one?
I know how devastating it can be to lose a loved one. Like you, I also lost some of my relatives. Some of them I watched deteriorate, suffer and die. To others, I did not have the chance to say goodbye.
You may feel angry, helpless, lonely, hurt, or even guilty. Could you have done anything to save their life? Were you there when they needed you the most? We may ask ourselves many questions. It is best to talk our feelings out, and to reconcile our emotions.
I am here to listen to you, to help you heal, I won't judge you!
Book your appointment online, I am here to help you!
We can only wish that we live happily ever after...
Marriages like other personal relationships could come with a price to pay, whether it is financial, emotional or physical. Relationships are challenging! When difficulties arise, it is very important to be aware of the root of the cause. Some issues are easy to be resolved, some may be to tough.
We wish for our relationships to overcome all problems, and we might be willing to do our share of efforts to save our marriage. But, in some cases, is it worth it to keep trying? Let me be your thinking partner.
I help people who struggle committing to just one partner, people who constantly change their mind, or lack communication, among others.
Let me use my training and expertise to help you figure this out. You can share your burdens with me, I won't judge you even if you've decided to call it quits.
Re-marriage, becoming a step-parent, dealing with the ex, the family drama, etc. It could be an awkward transition, especially early on.
Some couples come from different backgrounds, faith, country, or race; which could make things more complex.
I underestand the difficulties from the kids perspective, and from yours. My parents divorced when I was eight. I dealt with step parents, few! Re-marring could bring some drama, but also beautiful family.
Let me hear you concerns, issues and fears.
I help couples who struggle with the challenges of re-marriage to create a happy and lasting step-families. Book your session today!
Preparing For The Big Day
Preparing for the Big Day could be overwhelming, especially if you’ve never done it before! I understand the process, the challenges, and all the excitement. I experienced it myself as a first-time bride, and as my own wedding planner.
The process is exciting and meaningful, but also stressful. Dealing with people’s opinions, criticisms, and trying to please others can be challenging. The financial disagreements, sacrifices, and efforts to reach your goal could make you turn on your future spouse.
The drive for perfection can be emotionally fraught. The expectation for your wedding to be a fairy tale can place undue weight on your shoulders. The right coach can help you enjoy every moment and make the experience memorable.
There is much to anticipate and plan for. I want you to be prepared mentally and emotionally. Let me guide you, advise you, and help you enjoy every moment!